Get Out of Friend Zone
So you have been put in the friend zone by the girl of your dreams, damn! Most seduction advice will tell you to move on, I however will not! In this article you will find 7 easy steps of trying to get out of friend zone and into her bed.
I won’t lie, to get out of friend zone it will be somewhat of a challenge because she views you as more of a brother than a lover. In order to move past this you need to change her views of you.
The flowing are steps to try and change your position in her mind, as keeping things in the status qou they are in now, will lead to the same fate. So we need to mix some things up.
Step 1 – Don’t express your feelings
If you just jump out of the blue and express your dying love for her, chances are it will make your relationship weird and awkward and she will want to hang out with you less.
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Now, what if you have already told her your feelings? Well damn. Just kidding, we need to not mention it again, act casual around her, talk about other girls (not brag, just that you like them), and focus on the following two steps.
Step 2 – Don’t let her walk over you
This crush you have on her makes you do things for her that a man should only do for his girlfriend. Such as paying for your outings together, listening to her on the phone about her problems and leaning over backwards to please her. Its also really bad if you discuss her boy problems with her.
Its time to cut this crap out! When she calls, you don’t have to answer, just let it ring and call her back in a couple of hours. If she wants to do something, tell her you have other plans and suggest another time. Now this will be hard because you love being around her, but it’s a necessity for her to stop taking you for granted. If she works for your time and try’s to fit in to hang out with you, she will appreciate the time you have together a lot more
Step 3 – Go on Dates
Now women, want things that they cannot have. Let her see you being flirtatious with other girls, and if this girl likes you ask her out. When your dream girl sees you with other girls, she will notice your sexual appeal and this will trigger you in a new light, she will then get a little jealous of this new girl.
Step 4 – Touch her
Now she is starting to see you differently its time to incorporate some new things into your interactions with her and the best one is to touch her. You are still her friend so we will start of small.
- Hug her when you see her
- When walking through a crowd, guide her through with a gentle hand on the small of her back
- Touch her arm when emphasizing a point
This step is necessary as it very stealthy adds sexual tension to your relationship while getting her used to your touch, baby steps my friend!
Step 5 – Adding sexual identity
She is just starting to see you in a sexual, its time to amplify this, the best way to do so is to have discussions about sex. Now we need to do this in small dozes of sexual jokes or innocent flirty.
My personal favorite is when you both see a cute girl say ‘she’s cute, but she looks like a lights off missionary position type of girl.’ This works on two levels, it adds sexual identity to you and that you are adventurous in the bedroom. Now you are looking a lot more like a lover than her brother.
Step 6 – Create sexual tension
You’ve getting close to the end of your plan, we just need a few more steps. We need to create more sexual tension before we finally go for it. To do this we need to add more flirting into our conversations with her. I like to make sexual innuendo jokes. If she says something about you, I like to respond with ‘you couldn’t handle me anyways!’
We also want to up our eye contact, hold eye contact a little bit longer than you usually do. Don’t over do it though, just enough a little bit more each interaction. Combined this by getting physically closer to her, eg when you sit down on a couch, sit closer to her than you normally do. Trust me you will feel the effects it has on your body, and she is having them effects as well, just not as intense yet.
Step 7 – Go for it.
Alright we have done all we can to change the way she views you, we have made ourselves a novelty, flirted with her and other women, touched her, held her gaze, and much more. Now its time to pull the trigger!
Try hugging her, but stop and look into her eyes. If she holds your eye contact, give her a kiss. If you get the kiss well down all your hard work was worth it and now you have the girl of your dreams, you just need to keep up everything you were doing and make her your girl friend.
If she turns her head, she is still not ready. I would try again a week later, after that if that fails I would try to kiss her anyways, blow this shit up! If she goes what are you doing, its over. Its best to remove her from your life, as if you stay any longer your still going to want her and she will never feel the same way.
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