How To Flirt With Girls
‘Your Hot!!!’
Sadly this is what a lot of guys consider as ‘flirting’ with girls, because they don’t know how to flirt with girls which is good for us as that’s not hard to best! These guys are employing the 99-slap rule (if you go up to 100 girls one will say yes, the other 99 will slap you) but personally I don’t want to get slapped 99 times!
True seduction is a lot more complex than this, it requires demonstration of sexuality and physical attraction this together gives you an attractive personality. Bellow are 5 types on how to flirt with girls, that should get you miles a head of the ‘your hot’ competition.
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Tip #1 Understand flirting
Flirting is a lot more than just complimenting her. If you hold of doing so, the girl feels unsure how you feel about her and this heightens any attraction she has towards you, as she is now questioning her self if you like her or not, not if she likes you or not! So instead of using complements to flirt with her, we use bantering and being cocky funny, which will both add to sexual tension!
You want to start flirting with her when you meet her, this gives your relationship a light a fun status. By play fighting you will create rapport with her psyche, and she will crave attention from you.
Tip #2 Be cocky funny
An essential attribute on how to flirt with girls is cocky funny. Cocky funny is golden when flirting with girls, the mixture makes an amazing technique, it heightens her perceived status of you. It’s the adult’s version of picking on the girl you like in the schoolyard!
For example, if she is talking about something you disagree with, try and contradict her (cockiness), but do it will smiling and it a teasing manner (humor). If a girl calls you a jerk after doing this while smiling, you sir are doing the right thing!
Cocky funny is perfect for creating sexual tension, which is the main source of attraction. We do need to use this technique in moderation, so you don’t seem arrogant.
Tip #3 Create a sexually-tense conversation
The number one mistake most guys make is they do not set up the stage as you being a sexual human being, thus the girl categorizes you as a ‘fun friend’ which is a one way road to the friend zone.
Now this doesn’t mean you have to act like a dick and talk about sex directly and all the time, you should just indirectly introduce sexual topics into your interactions. Talking about ‘friends’ funny sexual stories is a good start, I also like to comment on people around me, ‘that guy looks like a lights off missionary position’ type of guy.
Tip #4 Touch her.
Another way to afford the dreaded friend zone is to touch her, as it lets her know you don’t want to just be friends in a good sexual tension building type of way. There is a lot of ways to touch her naturally:
- If she is joking/mocking you, playfully push her away.
- When talking touch her arm to stress a point
- Grab her hand to lead her through crowded places
- Guide her through a door by touching the small of her back while you hold it open for her.
These moves are small, but they do wonders for moving the interaction forward, just make sure you don’t linger with your touches, as it will make her feel uncomfortable.
Tip #5 Talk adventurously
‘Girls just wanna have fun!’ This is so true, girls crave excitement, and the best way to create such a thing is by painting a picture that your life is adventurous and exciting, which will make her more attracted to you, as by being around you should bring more fun and excitement into her life.
You don’t want to brag about yourself, you just need to add stories into your conversation, like wild road trips, crazy parties, awesome travel or projects that you have going on in your life. Then you should try and create fun activities you too could do together.
Now this is the basics on how to flirt with girls for me:
