How To Pick Up Girls
Now there is a lot of ways to go about picking up girls, during the day, clubs, online, social events and through friends. Even with all these ways there is still quite a few concepts that hold true when trying to pick up girls in any situation. This article will go through the basics of these concepts so you will know exactly how to pick up girls!
Now there are two ways to go about opening to pick up girls, these are direct and indirect openers, both have their advantages. Direct is going up to a girl and directly telling her that you are interested. Eg Hi, I thought you looked gorgeous and just had to come meet you. Now this type of opener is considered high risk, high reword because if she opens up and starts talking to you, she already knows that you are interested in her.
Indirect is when you go up to a girl with a question eg. Who do you think lies more men or women? And you explain why you are asking her this ‘my friend thinks men, but I’m 100% sure its women. This opening will get you rejected a lot less because you are not showing interest just merely asking a question, therefore you are less of a threat. However you are a lot more likely to end up in the friend zone.
Now personally I believe there is a time and place for both openers but direct is a lot more efficient.
Make yourself stand out from the crowd
Now that you have opened its time to show her you are not one of those cookie cutter guys who will just ask her the exact same questions as the last million guys who have. Eg what do you do? Where you from? Now I can’t stress this enough, avoid these questions at all cost in the first 5 minutes as they are boring and we want to make the girl excited to meet you!
To make the girl excited to meet you, you will have to be different. To do this, I highly recommend creating a ‘you and her’ together scenario. For example, ‘you tell her that she is your fiancé for the next 5 minutes and you have to plan the wedding’ Now you can shoot the shit and say I’m thinking we should let doves fly after the ring exchange, pretty much make fun of any cliché. There are tons of ‘you and her’ scenarios and most work wonders!
I also like to comment on things around me. I tell her I am an avid people watching and can guess things about these people around us, for example, when in a club, I see if I can point out the couples from the guys hitting on girls, and then we can always go find out if I’m right.
There are many ways to make yourself stand out from the crowd when learning how to pick up girls, these are just a few.
You already have attraction from showing your confidence by going up and talking to her, now we have to build on it. The two best ways to do this is with eye contact and touching her, these two ways will skyrocket attraction and I highly recommend you focus on them.
When you are trying to pick up girls, you want to hold eye contact around 75% of the time, this builds enough tension to create attraction while also stops the eye contact from coming of creepy. You want to be natural with it.
You also want to touch these girls, if you do it right, it subconsciously lets them know that you want to be more than friends and registers you in there mind as a potential lover, which is why you are talking to them right? There are tons of ways to incorporate touching into the interaction.
The easiest one is to playfully touch her, this means when she jokingly makes fun of you, you push her away or when she says something sweet, you pull her into you and give her a little hug. Another great way is to touch her arm to stress a point when talking to her.